Thursday, May 8, 2014

Dental Dairies: First Appointment in 3 Years

Hello Everyone,

      I know when some of you read that title you may have cringed a little and I don't blame you. Three years of avoiding the dentist is a long time. Last time I was at the dentist it was for an emergency extraction and yes my loves, that was 3 years ago. Over the last three years, I have had alot of random things happen to my teeth. I have two wisdom teeth that have rotted and slowly fallen apart. This morning I woke up with a piece of the tooth in my mouth and my life changed. After my avoiding the dentist for 3 years, I knew it was time. You can only avoid something for so long before you have to face it whether you want to or not. Anyways, I finally have benefits so that part is covered, now it's all about getting through the pain of possible root canals and most likely extractions involving my two rotten wisdom teeth. Anyways, Im off to brush my teeth so my densist doesn't know I had pizza for lunch...

Later Gates (gators),

Love Sarah

Sunday, April 6, 2014

A Little Life Update

Hello friends,
         Again, sorry for my absence lately. Life has got me so busy and all over the place lately. Almost every weekend I am doing something, some good, some bad. This weekend however is my work weekend. Blah! Nobody likes work and if you do then your are just a sad human being. Lol I kid, work pays off eventually and by 'eventually' I mean like when your 65 and can retire. I work in the customer service sector and I gotta say, people are major jerks. They look at you like you are the scum of the earth. And don't even get me started on the customers who don't get their way. Eesh!  It's like ripping a child's teeth out when you tell them no.
"But there it's cheaper on your website!!" they whine.
"The websites American".
They huff and puff. I look at them like they are annoying me (wait, not 'like', they are annoying me).
"But the dollar is equal!!!" Sometimes I want to punch people in the face, sue me!!!
"Well, The is CANADA and in case you haven't noticed, I DO NOT OWN THIS COMPANY, BECAUSE IF I DID, I SURE AS HECK WOULD NOT BE HERE ARGUING WITH YOU ABOUT WHY CANADA'S PRICES SUCK."
 The last part is implied but not actually said.
 I hate retail sometimes, but when you gotta pay off credit cards that have been haunting you for 4 years, the choices are limited.

What else have I been up to? hmm...let me think, oh yeah, I have this disease called 'the Cleaning Bug'. I used to be such a dirty person, and I was okay with it. That is until I realized it's gross and I need to be clean. I used to let my room fester in piles of clothing and dirty sheets for weeks. My Mom would always close my door when guest came over. My room was like the place where dust goes to die, a dust bunny grave yard, if you will. Now that I am in my mid-twenties, cleaning has become a big deal to me. I hate seeing anything dirty and when I get my 'girly time' I become Molly Maid, Mary Poppins and Nanny McFee on bloody steroids! For example, I just literally took my vacuum, mop and bleach into my basement and cleaned it from corner to corner. I could eat off my basement floor now, not that I would, but I could if I had to.

I took a huge step last week when I deleted a guy who I had been doting on for years off my facebook. I wrote a half a post regarding this douche. He basically had me on a string for 3 years. Leading me to believe that one day, ONE DAY he would be open to a relationship. Like the naive, romantic fool that I am, I believed him. After leading me to believe that he finally wanted to get together he suddenly cancelled our plans and then fell off the facebook planet for two months. He the proceeded to go out of his way to ask my sister for my number and texts me that he was officially taken, as in he now had a girlfriend. To make matters worse, the girl he is dating is a girl that he ranted to me about, saying something to the effect of, she is creepy, desperate and old. Then he decides to date her. Here I am, a girl who is ready and willing to be in a relationship with him, despite that fact that he has been stringing me along for 3 years and he chooses the desperate and old chick? Am I really that horrid? I personally think I am relatively attractive but noooooooo, he chooses the one who is creepy, desperate AND old!! Anyways, after him and her spamming my facebook with their happy couple pictures (GAG!), I finally had enough. On to bigger and better things right?

So, that's my update. Sorry about all the ranting but I needed to let y'all know. Thanks for reading guys and talk soon.

Love,
ME

Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Going through something...

Long time no write. I have been so blasted busy these last couple months  and I have been so busy blogging on my beauty blog, I neglected this blog. I dont really know how many of you actually read this blog but i really need to write and this place was my first thought. I used to have journal but I can't seem to sit down and write anymore so it sits on my desk and collects dust. One of the major reason I have not blogged over here in a while is because of some personal problems I have been dealing with that won't seem to fade away.

      At this point in time I am dealing with alot of conflicted feelings regarding two males. Yes, I say males. One of said males is/used to be a good friend. He moved here a while back and we really hit it off. We hung out, went to movies, went for coffee, we really had a time. Ofcourse, being me, I developed feelings for him but decided to keep them to myself in fear of ruining a perfectly good friendship. As time passed, I began to see traits in him that (to me) refelcted feelings of a romantic nature. I went through all the senerios in my head and came to the conclusion that he may have a little crush on me. That being siad, I am not the kind of person to think someone likes me unless I get a strong sense that they do. Anyways, I decided to let him in on my secret. Unfortunatly, due to the numerous times I have experienced heartache, I could not do it. Everytime I tried, nothing would come out. I even went through the whole 'I'll show him with my actions' phase, but that never seemed to go the way i wanted it to. I began to get quite irritable due to the fact that he would open up to me about other girls. It bothered me, obvously. I thought maybe he is talking about other girls because he really doesn't get my feelings. I never flirted, maybe he just thought I never felt that way. I decided to put this task into someone elses hands. So, I recruited my elder sister, we will call her Jenna. I waited and waited to hear from her and when I finally did, things didn't go the way I planned. He had basically told Jenna that he didn't understand why I would feel like he liked me and that he felt uncomfortable hanging around me now. He has not spoken to or texted me since. I think what bothers me most is, not the fact that he didn't like me back, but the fact that he would throw our friendship away like that. I mean, I liked him for a year and never made anything awkward. I don't really understand why things have to be awakward now, we are adults. I am deeply hurt.

On to the other fella...This dude has become the douche who comes back for more in my books. I met this guy about 3 years ago now through a friend. When I first met him I was not super attracted to him. He was a typical nerdy looking guy. Tall, thin, glasses. I think what attacted me was the fact that he wasn't typical and that he seemed to be interested in talking to me. Over the few years, I became more and more attracted but he never seemed to want to make a relationship of it. He would talk about other girls and sort of put me on the back burner. One day at a party, we danced together for the first time and then he proceeded to tell my sister Jenna that he liked me but he wanted me to make the first move. Jenna comes running to me and tells me this. She convinces me to let my walls down and tell him how I feel. The next day we text and I proceed to confess my feelings and reveal what he said to Jenna. He brushed the whole thing off as a drunken stooper and then tells me to 'go with the flow'. To this day, I still dont understand what he meant. Since then I have seemed to be in a rotation of girls and hear from him once every 2 months. My friends, family and co-workers have deemed him a jerk and can't stand his sight. But recently he contacted me wanting to hang out and I agreed. I have not made definate arrangements but we shall see. After telling everyone fearfully and getting alot of slack for saying yes, the romantic in me wants to know what he wants now and maybe he has changed.

                Among these romance issues, I have been going through something emotionally and it is making life difficult. Even just hearing a slightly sad story, I tear up. I really wish I could explain these emotions but it is difficult. I have also had a hard time saying 'no' recently. As you can see from the story above, I had no problem saying 'yes' to the douche in my life. I also signed up for a gym membership, even when it was obvious I was being slightly scammed. Something is not right. On top of my emotional issues, I have been stressing about my finances. I am really trying to get out of this hole I am in. It's scarey. If I could give on piece of finacial advice to someone, I would say, don't get a credit card when you are a teenager and on top of that, don't get a SECOND credit card when your a teenager. You are asking for it. I am paying for it now, big time, I am in a mess now and my credit is tarnished big time. I know I will fix it one day but it's going to take work.

Anyways, thats my update. Thanks for reading.

Love Sarah

Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Time to lose some weight :S

Hello Everyone,

         Who enjoys working out, eating healthy and getting on the scale? I am sure some of you do, but me? Hell no! I hate the thought. The thought of exercising and changing my eating habits sounds about as fun to me as ripping my toe hairs out. Listen, I am plus-sized. I can range from and 18-20, 22 on my off times and I have come to accept it. I don't mind being a big girl. I have the confidence to pull it off, but for me, I come to a point where I just need to shed a few pounds to feel better. So, I have come to that glorious point and I am ready to face the dieting doom. Not going to lie, the thought makes me want to puke, but I need to do it to feel a bit better, and I know with the cold weather coming, i need to lose before I gain. Anyways, I am going to take y'all with me on my journey. I won't be sharing my current weight but I will be keeping you posted on how I am attempting to lose a dress size or two. So, stay tuned!

XOX Sarah

Saturday, September 7, 2013

New Car & Getting Ready for my Getaway

Tomorrow is work day and then we have a whole four day of drinking and chilling. I am so excited but I have so much to do tomorrow after work to prepare for my getaway. I have got lots of bags to pack and some warm clothes to wash. The week looks promising weather wise but we shall see once we get up there. I need to pack my bathing suit and some nice warm sweaters for the cold nights that await. My friends cottage used to be a hotel back in the day and that part kind of creeps me out, not going to lie. I picture some creeping old hotel consumed by trees and wood. But nonetheless, we will have fun sitting are the fire with marshmallows and vodka coolers.

So, we finally put a down payment on a car today. The car is beautiful and I am so excited to drive it. We may have paid a bit more than we wanted because My mom and I went to close the deal and we are two women. But we don't have any men nearby who could help us negotiate a deal and we need a car desperately. We will have the car officially on Tuesday and ready to go. I can not relate how flipping excited I am!!!! I am just glad that I don't have to take the bus anymore!! I just want to get in my car and go home. Anyways, that's it for today.

Have good one guys!!!
Sarah

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Life Update & Mindless jibber jabber

Hello everyone,

           Longtime, no write, I know but life has been utter ciaos let me tell you. I lost interest in the 'saving' and 'paying bills' aspect when my bills went under control. I am still working at it but things are consistent and working out for the better these days. Today, I am going to give you a little update on my life recently. Let me warn you, some things will shock you. Let me start....

Around April, my 70 year old father was admitted into a long term care facility due to dementia and other diseases. This was not easy for anyone. Prior to his admittence, he was getting into everything, falling down stairs, soiling clothes and his bed and such. My mother suffers from her own illnesses and disabilities and this made things extra difficult for myself and my sister. When he was admitted, I think we all went through a little guilt over the fact that people accused us of "shoving him in a home". Some people (including family members) thought it was a way of reliving ourselves of the responsibility. It's easy to feel like maybe deep down inside that is the reason. After talking to eachother and praying alot, we came to a conclusion. No one knows the circumstances of our life. Some family member even turn their back on the fact and pretend that we are the ones with the wrong ideas. Trying to explain our feelings to people is like trying to decribe the color green. Unless you see for yourself, nothing will make sense.

Now, prepare yourself for the story of the summer. Many of my friends already know about this story but here it is for those of you who may not know. The beginning of July, my sister, mom and myself decided to head to the beach. The beach we go to is about an hour from where we live. Now my car was never in the greatest shape but we never though things would go this bad. As I drove up the highway about 30 minutes from house, I see that my battery light is flickering. I make the executive decision that I am going to pull to the side for fear that my car will break down in the middle of the highway. So, s I check my rearview mirror to get over, I see billowing smoke coming from the back end of my car. as I put the car in park and turn of the engine, smoke beins to seep through my air vents. That was clear sign that we needed to get out. We all got out and as we walk away from the car, I notice flames sitting at the base of my car. For some reason my first reaction was the pop the hood and just as I was abut the run for it, my mom grabs my arm and says we need to run the other way. I listened and I am glad we did because at that moment the car consumed with flames. My heart sank! I had left my cell in the car and starting panicing because someone clearly needed to call the fire department. I started frantically waving people down and no one would stop! I mean no one! People are real jerks sometime. Like they see three frantic women and a car on fire and they wont stop. I have a word for people like that but lets keep it PG. Finally a lady stops, rolls down the window and tell us to get in. She starts reversing....and as we move away, my car is engolfed. I think at that moment, I wanted to cry but the tears werent coming. Partly because we could have been killed if we had waited a moment longer to get out of that car. And also because my car was in flames and I was helpless. That car was alot to us. It was the first reliable car my parents could ever afford, it had been my mode of work transport for 7 years and now it was gone. Alot happened that day, but this post would go on for days. First there was panic, then shock and then tears. I miss my old car and the bus life sucks, but i am glad we all made it out alive.

Also, we moved! After 23 years in our town house we moved. It was crazy leaving that old place! There were so many memories in that shack. I was not as upset leaving as I thought I would be but at one point I did have a nervous breakdown about how small my room was. But that was it.

Anyways guys, that's all for today. The last 6 months have been a journey but I always remeber this, life will get crazy but sometimes the crazier the life, the better the stories. ;)

Love,
Sarah

Thursday, March 21, 2013

The Bill Binder

Hello Big Spenders,

              Well, it's Thursday night/ Friday morning and I am up when I should be sleeping. The reason I am up though, is a good reason. I have decided that in order to get out of my debt, I need to be more organized when it comes to paying my bills. Usually I just write everything down on a piece of paper, 2 days before payday and shove it in the back of my calender for work. But I came across this cool 'Bills Binder' on Pinterest today and I was really intrigued. I decided to give it a go. No surprise my computer refused to print the 'printables' to make my binder complete, so I am stuck making them manually on Word. Can you say 'annoyed'!! Anyways, I have to admit, it may, make paying bills enjoyable. Ha ha! who are we kidding? Bills? Enjoyable? Pulease!!! But I mean, with all the colors and fun word art it will atleast make it bearable. Am I allowed using that word? I have yet to complete my work of art as I got sleepy and gave up quickly. Anyways, when I am finished I will share it with you all! Have a good sleep!